At Last, Simple Ways to Attract
the Love of Your Life
from our Angel Messenger Creative Team
One of the strongest cravings of the human heart is for a beloved – an object of affection one can hold onto through thick and thin, someone one can snuggle with on cold nights, a person with whom we can share a love so deep that each cell of our body might become immersed in pure ecstasy. Yet there will hardly be any human on this planet who hasn’t known the travails of a heartbreak. We go through so many heartbreaks that many of us even give up on love altogether and close our hearts to people.
Release the Past – Make Room for New Love
Understand that there’s a purpose behind every person who comes in our life and every experience we go through. There’s always a lesson involved and unless we recognize and learn it, we’ll keep having the same experiences with different people.
Forgive others to release yourself from your own prison of suffering. The person who is getting hurt the most is not the one you are unwilling to forgive but you yourself. If you feel you can’t forgive anyone, then just think is it worthwhile walking around with the kind of anger and toxicity you feel every time you get reminded of what a particular person did or did not do? You would most likely recognize that your unwillingness to forgive is your own damnation.
Ask yourself what was there for you to learn in this? You must understand the fact that people come in our lives not just to share a happily ever after but to show us a mirror as to where we stand. Every relationship tests us to the limits of our capacity for love. A true soulmate brings out all that is unhealed in us so that it can finally be confronted and healed in a congenial environment of mutual admiration and love.
However, not everyone is spiritually mature enough to recognize the fact that their anger and negative patterns are not because of their partner but because of what’s unhealed in them. The partner merely serves as a trigger for bringing to the surface what is already there.
What’s even sadder is that most people are addicted to the initial euphoria of falling in love when everything appears rosy and there are no challenges to be confronted. Some people are addicted to this state to such an extent that they hop from one relationship to another ending each relationship the moment they begin to notice the human imperfections of their partner. They think love has died, and moving on to the next person is the only viable solution. Hence, continues the vicious cycle of suffering.
You must understand that the real work of love begins after the initial excitement of falling in love has worn off a little. As you begin to see the human imperfections of your partner, you have to understand that this is the beginning of real love. You have attracted your partner in your life for a specific reason. There is a lesson only they can help you learn. You must recognize that every time you think your partner is annoying you or making you angry, in reality, they are only just hitting a raw nerve in you.
You already have the latent emotional pain or traumatic memory that gets triggered through their words or actions. The purpose of coming together in a relationship is to share a congenial environment for both people to heal in it. A committed relationship is a laboratory in which every emotion will be tested. You must never forget that your partner is merely serving as a trigger for however you are feeling.
Once you understand this, it becomes easier to forgive people. You realize that every person who came in your life helped you learn a particular lesson. Even when you thought they have wronged you, they were actually serving your highest good by helping you learn the lesson that your soul desires to learn.
Remember, you can’t attract a fulfilling relationship based on mutual love and appreciation until you are willing to fully let go of the past. How can you fit in a beautiful new piece of furniture if your house is already overcrowded and cluttered with unwanted stuff? Forgive and release the past not because your ex-partner deserves it but because you deserve to be happy!
Exercise for Releasing the Past
Practice deep breathing for a few minutes. Once you start feeling calm, think of the person you need to forgive. Allow all unwanted emotions to come up – don’t judge, don’t try to stop them. If you need to cry, then allow yourself to cry. If you must shout, then don’t stop yourself from yelling. This is the process of release and it must not be hastened.
Once you start feeling calm again, say this out aloud while still beholding that person’s face in your mind’s eye, “I’m grateful for the experiences I could have because of you. I’m grateful for all the good times we shared. With unconditional love in my heart, I’m now releasing you to the Universe.” Feel every word as you say it.
I would suggest doing this practice every day for at least 21 days. You must also get rid of all items from your physical environment that bring up negative memories related to your relationship. If something does not make you feel good, it’s time to discard it.
Don’t move on to the next step until you have released the person or people you are holding on to. You need to make space in your life for new and bigger love to find you.
How to Attract the Right Partner
The simplest way of attracting the right partner is to become the person you are seeking. Make a list of all the qualities you are seeking in your ideal partner – yes, you MUST write these down. Once you have the list ready, you can evaluate to see if you are the ideal partner for the type of person you are desiring. For example, if you want to be with a perfect gentleman, you must yourself act like an ideal lady. When we become what we are seeking, we automatically attract people who are on the same wavelength as us. Work hard on yourself and the universe will take care of bringing the right person to you.
Live As if You Already Have What You Are Seeking
Start living as if what you are seeking is already yours. You can also maintain a journal where you write about your life the way you want to be living it. Make sure to keep all words in the present tense. For instance, if you would like to go every morning for a walk on the beach with your partner, then write down in your journal, “I love walking on the beach with my partner.” Create a visual picture of everything you are writing. Imagine what it would feel like if you were both holding hands right now. What kind of emotions will it evoke? What will you say? How happy will you feel?
Once you can evoke the right emotions and retain them at all times, you have become a powerful magnet for attracting the right person in your life. The purpose behind living as if what you want is already yours is to make sure that you become and remain a vibrational match for your desires.
Regular practice of affirmations is a powerful tool for rewiring the subconscious mind. You can create your own or you can use the following affirmation:
“I am in a beautiful loving relationship. My partner loves and admires me deeply. We are bound together in a bond of deep affection and powerful attraction. Every day our love grows. I am deeply fulfilled with my life and my relationship.”
Much Love & Angel Blessings,
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