We all have times in our lives when we experience disagreements or challenges in our relationships with others. At times these disagreements and challenges may be with a significant other………..or, at times they may be with family, friends, co-workers or even with a complete stranger.
In every situation, I have come to realize that the best way for me to handle these disagreements and challenges is by connecting with my God Essence……the place within me that is Unconditional Love and Compassion……..and looking at the other person through my soul’s eyes…..from my soul to their soul. In this way, I come to see that this person is perhaps operating out of their patterns, from their emotions or even operating from their own Divine truth.
In these instances it is helpful to look at the circumstances experienced from their perspective. You might actually gain pearls of wisdom in the process and, by staying centered in your God-Self and exuding compassion and love, you will help to heal the situation.
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I received this card just after asking all angels and spirit guides to lead me on a righteous path to be a better man, husband and father. My wife and I are currently going through a divorce because I was allowing temptation lead me to a path of infidelity. I asked for their help to gain her forgiveness.
Sounds like the perfect message, Jim. Looking at the situation from your soul’s eyes, a place of unconditional love and compassion, would definitely help you to gain perspective and find a better path. Wishing you the best of luck. 🙂
I just received this card after asking for guidance about my mother. She is a 73 year old drug addict and has been for over half her life. She didn’t raise me, my dad did. I often sent her money over the years and also had her come live with me so she could try and get clean , but she ended up going back there her old ways and left me and my son with her cat. Fast forward many years and she is back with me. She has nowhere to go, has a high energy drink g who she can’t control , plus my brothers dog who is in jail for a year. I can’t have dogs at my place because our landlord only allows our two dogs and our dogs don’t get along with other dogs anyway . I have been very clear with her and she still is continuing her lifestyle . I told her I can no longer enable her lifestyle and she refuses to rehome her dogs even though they are not getting their needs met. I hate to give animals away, I love my furbabbies , but it’s also not fair to them to put them through this.
It’s my fault for never putting up clear boundaries but I’m trying to now. I can not have hard drugs in n my world and the energy that comes with it. My mom has made multiple choices that have led her to her current circumstances and as much as I love my mom and family is my world, I’m not doing her any good by cleaning up her messes.
It’s in my nature to love unconditionally but I absolutely need to take care of me!
So how do I see my moms position and put myself in he shoes? That’s all I have done all my life for this woman. I love her and I’ve been torn up and crying from the pain of having to potentially push my own mom away. I also recently confronted her and told her she needs help but she refuses and wants to continue her lifestyle
How do I keep seeing her position or where she’s coming from?
I’m a tough and spiritually strong woman who’s been through ALOT but this is soooo hard. Thank you for holding space for m to share and I’m open to advice . Angel blessings 💗
Hi Sue, thank you for commenting and sharing your story. I would also consider that this card may be telling you to see her … truly see her for who she is and all that she is not. Especially with family, it can be really difficult, but seeing who they truly are can help us to set up our own boundaries. I also have family that would walk all over me, if I allowed it … and I did for a long time. Work on building yourself up, and make sure that you also have unconditional love and compassion for yourself … because we are no good for anyone when we allow others to drain all that we are. I hope this helps. 🙂
Thank you so much! I truly appreciate your guidance and insight.
I apologize for dumping a bunch of my drama here. It was a particularly rough night when I posted that.
I’ve been reflecting a lot and thank you again for holding space and your nonjudgment and unconditional love. I’m taking your advice to ♥️
hi i have alit in common with you, i have a mum whos an alcoholic and shes now 80 and still drinks every day and u cant help unless they help themselves, my mum is very dufficult at times and although im still around her to a degree i do keep some distance because i dont like her drinking who her behaviour at times. My advice to u is to think of urself because it sounds like u think anout everyone else but urself and dont feel bad about putting urself 1st coz its anout time u did. U have done more then enough now its time for u. much love and luck to u.u r a lovely women.
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Sometimes we only think of our own obstacles and wants/needs to change them, forgetting that the other person(s) also have their issues to sort out.
This is a good card to have, as a reminder to be more compassionate of others…