What Is Stopping Me From Love?

As a energy healer and Akashic record reader I am often asked the question, what is stopping me from finding love? It is such an important question that we all have to address at some point in our lives. Love is such an important need and want for a human being. It is the only energy, the only vibration that reconnects us with who we are. It is the highest form of energy there is. Every other substitution falls short.

When I hear this question I know the person is coming from a belief system, thought pattern that has been programed into them. There is a block that makes them think that for some reason they are not capable of finding the kind of love they really deserve. That there is something wrong inside of them.

So why are you not getting what you want? Even if you’re telling the universe that you’re ready, willing and open your emotions could be contradicting those thoughts. If you’re wondering how come the universe can’t figure out what you want and just give it to you. It can, but it uses your emotions as the guideline. So if you’re thinking yes but you’re feeling no then it hears that loud and clear.

A lot of this is subconscious. It’s programming that was given to you by your environment and experiences. Your brain is in a hypnotic state the early years of your life. If you heard, felt, saw relationships in a certain way, your brain would simply accept that as your truth. By the way, 90+ percent of our behaviors, thoughts and feelings are subconscious! So if you’re using 10% of your mind to ask for your love and 90% is feeling the opposite, guess who wins?

Now let’s be honest, most of us have been trained to believe that what we need is outside of ourselves. We logically know that doesn’t make sense, but emotionally we can’t seem to stop the obsession. That’s because of our programming. I would suggest that you work with that belief or block that is keeping you stuck. Find out what the root cause of that discomfort is. Where that belief comes from, who’s is it and why you’ve adopted it. Then do whatever it takes to permanently remove it from your subconscious mind. Once your vibration changes, you will find love.

Mona Wind is an accomplished energy healer, teacher and Akashic record reader with many happy clients and students. She is known by her clients as the accelerator because of her unique gift to see a person’s blocks immediately and remove them. She is trained as a Reiki Master, EFT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Certified Practitioner of the Akashic Records, Tibetan energy healing and Raw foods teacher. She has a Masters in Human Resource Management. Her hobbies are traveling (34 countries so far), hiking, biking, studying different energy modalities and growing orchids.