“[My husband and I] have been trying to have a child for over 3 years and every Angel Intuitive and psychic I have asked about having children have ALL said “YES” that we will have 2 children. I just turned 41 years old last month, and I feel I am losing hope of getting pregnant and giving birth to a child. I even ask your free Angel card readings and they tell me that there is a new addition coming to the family. I don’t want to give up hope but I also don’t want keep my hopes up if having a child isn’t in my path. Any answers or advice, I would truly appreciate.”

In reading your email, I was immediately pulled in to the desperation behind your question. I know how badly you want a child, and I do see a family in your future. However, I’m not exactly sure how that family will come about. Sometimes, with email, it’s difficult to get passed certain emotions. The energy I feel from you makes it difficult to see things clearly, but this also tells me a great deal about your situation.

I can see that one of your challenges in this life is dealing with personal power. Somewhere in the past, freedom was abused or taken advantage of in some way. This can lead to karmic issues with personal power. I would guess that you have had some challenges related to personal power in this lifetime. Either you struggle with things that are out of your control, or you give up your power to others. With respect to your question, I have to say there is specific advice related to personal power coming from your guardian angels. “Do not give up, but let go of your need to control the outcome.” As I said before, I do see a path ahead of you that includes a family, but the path may be slightly different than you imagine. Your spirit guides are talking about a healing that needs to take place. I’m not sure if that healing is on a physical level or emotional. They are telling me that you need to consider all options before you. Educate yourself on all possibilities. Most of all, watch your thoughts. Don’t linger on the idea of never having children. Visualize what you do want to happen – not what you fear.


This may be one of those cases where you become pregnant once you stop trying so hard. This could also imply that a child will come to you by other means, like adoption. I can promise you that children have the ability to find their own ways of coming into our lives. Clear your mind of expectations, and just let go to whatever possibilities present themselves.

You personally have a uniquely humanitarian energy. Using numerology, I can see that your life path number and your birthday number are both a 9. This means the path you walk in life and the gift you bring into this world are both the same. You yourself are love personified, and I can’t possibly imagine someone more qualified to be a mother. When your energy is balanced – spiritually, emotionally, physically and mentally – your are the definition of a humanitarian spirit. Your soul is very old, and you have experienced much. This is a life when you want to achieve completion on a soul level. I can understand the longing for a child. You feel a child will complete you on the deepest level. An important aspect of your energy is that you do not naturally posses balance, however. You must find ways to balance yourself, especially on an emotional level. Finding balance is very important when it comes to being your true self.

The best advice I can give you is to maintain balance in your life. Do whatever it takes. Find time for yoga or some sort of meditative exercise. Take care of yourself. Don’t give up, but let go of how you think the outcome should come about. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and send you blessings of love and happiness.

~ Sheri

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