“I am struggling to let go of my love for a man who I had a beautiful relationship with for a year. He left me two years ago, running for the hills saying he would be back when the time was right. I sincerely believed he loved me and believed he would be back. I had two angel card readings, one saying we would be reunited in two years and have family happiness after that, and another saying pretty much the same. The trouble I’m having now is that it will be two years of separation next month, and I would love to be reunited with him as the love I have is still strong but I’m afraid that it is literally impossible that those angel readings could be right because we live in different country’s now and hardly ever speak. Both of us have had this idea that having no contact would enable us to move on from each other easier. I am doubting angel accuracy and quite frankly the entire experience has left me questioning guidance from spirit. Can you advise me on the true accuracy of angels, or if the person delivering the messages could get it wrong. I just don’t see how what I want to happen and what was seen to happen could actually happen given the circumstances him and I are now in. I also wonder if I will ever get over this or get over the deep desire to be with this man.” – Struggling to Move On
Dear Struggling to Move On,
I’m sorry for your pain. This situation is clearly unfair to you. It’s really not sitting well with me that you are waiting for this man. I want to say that there is also a bit more to him than you might realize. What? Is he an international spy or something, that it’s best to have no contact with someone he supposedly loves? I’m sorry, I’m just trying to shed some light on why this would make sense. I honestly feel many secrets with this man, and I can’t see what’s going on with him.
As for the accuracy of angels or angel card readings, there can be inaccuracies. When we read cards for ourselves, for example, it can be very easy to see what we want to see – to interpret as we want instead of what is real. It can be difficult to be objective enough to see the truth. When someone else is reading for you, it’s easier to get an objective point of view, but you have to remember they are still interpreting that guidance. Sometimes, too, a reader can hold back information if he/she feels like it’s not what the client wants to hear. Still, for me, that can difficult, but honesty is always better than delivering false hope. Another thing is that the future is constantly changing, depending on the decisions people make. Maybe at the time you had these readings, he had the intention of returning to you.
I wish I could get a clear connection to him, but for some reason I’m not able to. Maybe, if I had his name or date of birth, it would be easier. I work with people all over the world, so I know it’s not the distance of being in another country. He has many secrets, though. Does he talk to you about his life? Do you know what these secrets are?
Even without being able to connect to him, I can still connect with you and your guides. Guardian angels protect us, but it’s our spirit guides who offer advice. Don’t be too hard on yourself that you’re having difficulty moving on, but do work toward freeing yourself from this relationship. I read somewhere that, psychologically, it can take three times the length of a relationship to get over it. 
For you, this relationship is still existing, which makes it even more difficult to move on from. I would suggest maybe considering this person more a friend you once knew and loved. Put that idea in your mind and begin to separate from the idea of marriage with him. I know this is not what you want to hear, but facing that possibility will help you to move forward. If he intended to come back and marry you, I should be able to pick up on something with him but I’m not. Something is definitely not right with that idea, and it’s not fair that you’ve been strung along like this. You have a loved one coming through, someone acting as a father figure, who is actually angry about this, and I’m angry for him because I feel his anger. I’m also hearing a hard “c” or “k” sound, which I’m assuming is a name.
Maybe things will change down the road, but, for right now, you need to free yourself from this relationship. I’m sorry, and I wish I could tell you more. I wish I could see what you hope, but moving on can bring a future that you’ve not yet given a possibility. That is a hope you can hold onto.
Angel Blessings of Love and Peace,
Sheri
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