“My sister is going to marry the wrong man, and I don’t know what to do. I feel like I should step in and say something, but I don’t know what that should be. He’s more than just a guy I don’t like. He’s abusive and manipulating. Last summer, she broke her arm and told me it was because she fell off the four wheeler, but I know that’s not true because the four wheeler wasn’t running at the time. When I said so, she said she had to go and basically hung up on me! I’ve hoped for almost two years that she would leave him, but they are now engaged! Please help!!!”
There’s no doubt in my mind that this guy is definitely not a guy she should marry. Unfortunately, that has to be a choice your sister makes for herself. I will say that there is purpose to this relationship. Your sister needs to heal from previous hurts that follow this same path. Honestly, it feels like you yourself have had to heal from some of those same issues. Maybe there was abuse from your childhoods in this lifetime, but I also see she’s dealing with some past life Karma.
Your sister has a very powerful Spirit Guide who was a Wiccan High Priestess. She’s showing me that your sister was once very powerful in her own right. The vision I have of her in this past life makes her look very much like pictures I’ve seen of Brighid – red hair and a soul filled with fiery passion. Somewhere along the way, she’s lost who she was. Her power might have been taken advantage of or misused in some way. The abuse she has encountered in this life is an opportunity for healing. It’s an opportunity for her to stand up and not accept this life. She deserves better, and she needs to claim that better life for herself. You can help her, urge her along, but the decision needs to be her own. No one can overcome this karmic past for her.
This man is nothing compared to your sister. When I saw who she is for real, I knew he can never be deserving of such beauty and power. Who he is, what he has done, he does not deserve your sister. Well, I take that back. He might, because when she finally does realize who she is, he will get what he deserves! She has the power to heal her karma and make him pay for his. It may not be the best way to handle things, but I do see that possibility.
There’s something else I see, too. I see two children. Maybe she already has one or maybe she’s lost one? It feels like one is here and one is yet to come, but sometimes I pick up on children who have passed like they are here. One feels different than the other, though, so I think one is here and one is going to be born. If your sister is not careful, she could become pregnant within the next few months, and I don’t think that’s the best idea right now. Although, since I’m doing this reading through you, it’s also possible I’m picking up on something from you.
I will keep your sister in my prayers. I pray that she finds the strength she needs to stand up for who she is and leaves this man before marrying him and / or bringing children into this. If she is open to hearing what I’ve said, please share it with her. Tell her to work with Archangel Michael to find courage and direction. She may also want to research Brighid and call upon her energy because that just feels so very right for her.
Blessings and Light to you and your family,
Sheri
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I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of this baby. I agree that maybe it would be better for the child to come later, when your sister is with a good man, but the loss is still tragic. I will continue to pray for you and your sister and hope this tragedy will help her to see things as they truly are.
Thank you and wow! You’ve hit everything right on. My sister was three weeks pregnant and miscarried the baby a few days ago. As sad as I am she lost the baby, I’m also happy the baby was spared from this situation. This might be enough to make her leave him. She says she’s leaving him. You were right about our shared past, too. Our mother was an abusive alcoholic and father was never around. I was older and fought back, but my sister was much younger. She would hide until it was over. She can’t hide now, so I hope she fights back this time. Thank you.